Hey revolutionists,
Once again I am back. I am trying to get exposure from anywhere because i am going to do what it takes to make it. I have been asking a lot of people to vote for me but the feedback has been minimal so I have to do whats necessary!
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Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Social Spark
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Hey revolutionists,
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Sunday, June 13, 2010
Button Pushers
"Someone in your life that causes you emotional tension because of what they say or do."
Hey Revolutionists,
Today I was at church and this was the message for today, Button Pushers. I am sure all of you at some point or another have had one person push your button to the point where you feel like you are about to explode.
But today the message was pretty clear, God puts these people up to the task of pushing your buttons so that you can fix something that is going on internally. Like always I have always had this happen to me but I never put it together that God was trying to fix something within.
Well I have this one button pusher and he has the habit of getting real comfortable whenever we are together. He thinks its OK to not answer calls, answer when he wants and try to make his life more important than mine. I kept trying to figure out what it was about him that got me worked up so much, why did he push my buttons so much i just felt like screaming.
Well my emotional internal problem for a long time has been trust and patience. I get so worked up when he is doing all these things because I have no trust in him and I get short of patience whenever he takes too long.
What can I do about this then?
LEARN to trust..well since I cant know what he is doing every second of the day I am forced to accept that I have to start trusting again. Since I cant be answered when I want I want, I have to be patient enough to wait for a response.
HOW WILL THIS HELP IN THE LONG RUN?
I learn that patience is a virtue and I learn that the only way to ever have a healthy and happy relationship is to trust again.
WHAT IS YOUR INTERNAL DOWN FALL? HOW CAN YOU OVERCOME THIS?
Take a second and evaluate what is going on with you so that when people push your buttons you will be strong enough to overcome anything they throw at you.
love u guyz!
Reading for the day 2KINGS 5:1-19
Hey Revolutionists,
Today I was at church and this was the message for today, Button Pushers. I am sure all of you at some point or another have had one person push your button to the point where you feel like you are about to explode.
But today the message was pretty clear, God puts these people up to the task of pushing your buttons so that you can fix something that is going on internally. Like always I have always had this happen to me but I never put it together that God was trying to fix something within.
Well I have this one button pusher and he has the habit of getting real comfortable whenever we are together. He thinks its OK to not answer calls, answer when he wants and try to make his life more important than mine. I kept trying to figure out what it was about him that got me worked up so much, why did he push my buttons so much i just felt like screaming.
Well my emotional internal problem for a long time has been trust and patience. I get so worked up when he is doing all these things because I have no trust in him and I get short of patience whenever he takes too long.
What can I do about this then?
LEARN to trust..well since I cant know what he is doing every second of the day I am forced to accept that I have to start trusting again. Since I cant be answered when I want I want, I have to be patient enough to wait for a response.
HOW WILL THIS HELP IN THE LONG RUN?
I learn that patience is a virtue and I learn that the only way to ever have a healthy and happy relationship is to trust again.
WHAT IS YOUR INTERNAL DOWN FALL? HOW CAN YOU OVERCOME THIS?
Take a second and evaluate what is going on with you so that when people push your buttons you will be strong enough to overcome anything they throw at you.
love u guyz!
Reading for the day 2KINGS 5:1-19
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Satan shakes up our lives, God Sustains us, then uses us to strengthen others
Hey Revolutionists,
Everytime I write you guys i feel as if I am at a cross roads. I keep trying to figure if taking this road is what I deserve even if it might pay off in the end.
You ever just sit down and wonder why some things are happening to you. Why you cant have a great relationship when people all around you are? Why you cant find that job and people around you found one? Why you cant seem to be happy and happiness is all around you?
Well I was at church today and I listened to a very powerful message and it brought some serious understanding to something I have been confused about for a long time. One time I heard Oprah say that someone asked her why she didnt have any children and she responded with something like, thats why she built the school in Africa, all of those girls were her children. Back then I didn't complete understand what she meant but after today I understand everything.
The message today said that God is going to use you in the very area that you failed in. You are probable wonderiing where I am going with this. Well all my life I havent had a good relationship when it comes to men and people are probably wondering how can I give advice on having one then. See the thing is, I know what not to do and what not to take and what you dont deserve. I want to be the Oprah to all the broken hearts and battered women out there. I want to be the one that shares what I have been through so women can learn from it.
"One day God is going to use you to help you with someone going down the same path."
You dont have to believe me when I say that this is my purpose, but I believe in God that it is. He is giving me the strength to reach out to all the young and old women out there to let you know that we are going to make it.
Don't lower your standards and settle for something less than the best. You dont think that the right man is out there for you? Well I believe it enough for the both of us. Trust me there is no perfect man but there is someone perfect for you.
Stop putting up with second best because if he truly loved you and cared about you there would be no room for error.
Do you want to know what the probelm is with our generation? Love is being based on superficial and materialistic needs. How dare you think that your relationship or marriage is going to be strong when the foundation you have built it on is so weak.
Believe ME when I say this, I have NEVER had a good relationship but I am here to let you know what you do deserve, what you should not do, and when exactly its that time to leave.
Join me on this revolution, healing one broken heart at a time.
Reading for the day Luke 22:31-32
Everytime I write you guys i feel as if I am at a cross roads. I keep trying to figure if taking this road is what I deserve even if it might pay off in the end.
You ever just sit down and wonder why some things are happening to you. Why you cant have a great relationship when people all around you are? Why you cant find that job and people around you found one? Why you cant seem to be happy and happiness is all around you?
Well I was at church today and I listened to a very powerful message and it brought some serious understanding to something I have been confused about for a long time. One time I heard Oprah say that someone asked her why she didnt have any children and she responded with something like, thats why she built the school in Africa, all of those girls were her children. Back then I didn't complete understand what she meant but after today I understand everything.
The message today said that God is going to use you in the very area that you failed in. You are probable wonderiing where I am going with this. Well all my life I havent had a good relationship when it comes to men and people are probably wondering how can I give advice on having one then. See the thing is, I know what not to do and what not to take and what you dont deserve. I want to be the Oprah to all the broken hearts and battered women out there. I want to be the one that shares what I have been through so women can learn from it.
"One day God is going to use you to help you with someone going down the same path."
You dont have to believe me when I say that this is my purpose, but I believe in God that it is. He is giving me the strength to reach out to all the young and old women out there to let you know that we are going to make it.
Don't lower your standards and settle for something less than the best. You dont think that the right man is out there for you? Well I believe it enough for the both of us. Trust me there is no perfect man but there is someone perfect for you.
Stop putting up with second best because if he truly loved you and cared about you there would be no room for error.
Do you want to know what the probelm is with our generation? Love is being based on superficial and materialistic needs. How dare you think that your relationship or marriage is going to be strong when the foundation you have built it on is so weak.
Believe ME when I say this, I have NEVER had a good relationship but I am here to let you know what you do deserve, what you should not do, and when exactly its that time to leave.
Join me on this revolution, healing one broken heart at a time.
Reading for the day Luke 22:31-32
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Angry Black Women
Hey Revolutionists,
I am writing on this topic because I am tired of seeing it and hearing about it everywhere I go. I use to always be the one defending black women, talking about how we are not angry just fed up but I have come to the conclusion that something else is going on.
I went apartment shopping and just about all the black women that showed me apartments had this angry frustrated look like someone had been abusing them all day. The other day I went to this diner and the service was horrible, the "black woman" there had all this attitude for no apparent reason.
I think that's the reason I wanted to start this revolution because believe it or not that stigma is hanging over our heads and it needs to stop.
WHAT R U ANGRY FOR?
DO you not understand that having a sulky, angry attitude affects everything from getting jobs to having good relationships. No one wants to be around negativity, its something that disgusts people.
What I am trying to say is we cant let something so simple have such a huge impact on our lives. I am tired of people talking about black women are so angry what is wrong with them, you can never please a black woman, black women this and that. That is why every woman not just black needs to try on this new thing, its called happiness.
Lets change the world and spread positivity, there is no reason a whole gender should be categorized under something so negative. I love you guys lets me this happen.
I am writing on this topic because I am tired of seeing it and hearing about it everywhere I go. I use to always be the one defending black women, talking about how we are not angry just fed up but I have come to the conclusion that something else is going on.
I went apartment shopping and just about all the black women that showed me apartments had this angry frustrated look like someone had been abusing them all day. The other day I went to this diner and the service was horrible, the "black woman" there had all this attitude for no apparent reason.
I think that's the reason I wanted to start this revolution because believe it or not that stigma is hanging over our heads and it needs to stop.
WHAT R U ANGRY FOR?
DO you not understand that having a sulky, angry attitude affects everything from getting jobs to having good relationships. No one wants to be around negativity, its something that disgusts people.
What I am trying to say is we cant let something so simple have such a huge impact on our lives. I am tired of people talking about black women are so angry what is wrong with them, you can never please a black woman, black women this and that. That is why every woman not just black needs to try on this new thing, its called happiness.
Lets change the world and spread positivity, there is no reason a whole gender should be categorized under something so negative. I love you guys lets me this happen.
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