Hey Revolutionists!
Today was a rough one! How rough...filing a police report rough!
I am always battling with this old age dilemma, double standards because I truly believe that I should be able to act and feel and speak how I want, not just because I am a female but because I am Bianca.
Since the beginning of my time I have ALWAYS gotten in trouble for saying whatever I felt like saying but in more cases than one it has always back fired on me. So I know you are thinking why the hell don't you stop then and just conform to what society says is right. STOP! I cant and will never allow myself to do that because if I do that means I have lose what it truly means to be Unique! (my mother didn't name me that for no reason).
So today like every other time I am wronged I decided to put the person on notice, in a more public way (funny thing my male cousin had did the exact SAME THING a couple of days ago but of course he was met with praises and likes). So I did it and you better believe it didn't turn out exactly that way. I was met with threats and black mail. I couldn't figure it out! So you lie to me and deceive me and the other female and I should just sit back and forget it (my female cousin said i should have just "let it go"). That's insane, why as women we should just let men get away with whatever they want and "let it go". Its disturbing and it just goes to show that we are not as evolved as we think we are. If you cheat you should suffer the consequences, it is as simple as that.
I sat back horrified for a moment thinking of how this person could be so cruel and heartless after it was there tip that set off the whole thing. I am constantly having an internal battle, do I do whats right or do what people think is right? Sometimes you have to be the sacrificial lamb, to see changes happen and to make people aware. Its going to be hard but I am going to continue to stick to my guns and be me, Bianca Unique Strachan. I cant live any other way.
John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
So continue to follow me on this journey as i make my way to self discovery, I love u guys!
