Is it possible just to have fun?

Hey guys,

I am really trying to get better with keeping everyone up to date. Next topic I really wanted to focus on is " Is it possible just to have fun?" Basically nothing serious, no strings attached and no one gets jealous.

I personally do not think its possible unless both parties have just gotten out of something serious and they really are not interested in settling down at the moment. Or it could be some crazed bachelor who is never thinking about settling down.

As a woman who truly believes in love in what it represents I feel like everyone should go into something not just to have fun but to make it meaningful. I knew at the beginning of summer I was very adamant on having fun and chilling and focusing on what I needed to do. But as I continue this journey I realize that not only do I need more, I honestly deserve more.

The last couple of years have been filled with drama and heartbreak and I honestly think that I am ready to make that commitment. It just takes the right kind of man to offer what I want and I am not settling for anyone who comes trying to half ass it.

I believe that our generation has lost what it truly means to love and be in love. There is a lot of focus on money and power but at the end of the day you don't want to end up lonely. I am going on record saying lets not just have fun lets make it mean more.

This whole no strings attached is funny too. I hear ppl say it all the time but it never works out that way. Someone ends up catching feelings and then the whole thing basically serves no purpose. It would all work out better if people went into it with a different perspective on what they want the relationship to be.

Continue to follow or join me on this revolution to self discovery and ever lasting happiness ....i love u guys!

Can males and females be platonic friends??

Hey Revolutionists,

I am honestly getting tired of writing that its been too long or that I need to write more often and I am pretty sure you are tired of hearing it.

Well since I have been home I have had a lot of free time on my hands but I wasn't exercising it properly. Well this topic came to mind because lately I have been noticing that I have been cool with people but I think that they have been taking it another way.

I use to be one of those ppl who truly believed that it was possible but I soon realized how naive I was to think that. I think that there is no way a male and a female can be strictly friends, someone always has a motive.

So after all this friend business, what exactly do you do when you see the conversation starts to switch and before you know it, you are being asked..."what is your favorite position"

I need insight!