Hey Revolutionists:
It has been forever and each time I apologize for the neglect. I have been going through so much lately, I couldn't even express through my words how I was feeling.
The topic I am writing on may hit close to home for a lot of women out there. We all have thing thing inside us that lets us know when something is going wrong or when something isn't quite right. Some call it intuition.
Let me tell you something, it does not matter what a man tells you, how good of a liar he is, you alwaysssssssss know when something isnt what it seems.
I am really writing this post because the other day I received an email from my dude telling me he didn't want to have any ties with me. It was crazy because we were on a little break and for a split second I thought we were done. Then i thought about it, he would never send me and email and i know the way he uses his words and he would never talk like that.
This girl had hacked his email and sent it to me. I think if you have to do all of that to try and get someone from talking to "your man" the battle has already been lost. NO man wants a girl going through his phone, email etc. that just crosses so many boundaries and lines and invades his personal space more than anything.
Next I had this girl's friend request me on my private twitter account. AGAIN ladies if you have to go through this much trouble to find out information, if she has this much suspicion about her man then that little thing called intuition should have kicked in 100 fold.
I am not saying my relationship is conventional or that the situation is right BUT i am saying, men will say what they want to get what they want as long as you give it to them. The longer you stay the harder it is to get out. There is always one woman who is willing to fight harder and longer because she is not interested in winning battles she is more concerned about winning the war.
Its good to want to believe your man, but do not go as far as to let denial and love blind you from what is truly right.
