Hey Revolutionists,
Everytime I write you guys i feel as if I am at a cross roads. I keep trying to figure if taking this road is what I deserve even if it might pay off in the end.
You ever just sit down and wonder why some things are happening to you. Why you cant have a great relationship when people all around you are? Why you cant find that job and people around you found one? Why you cant seem to be happy and happiness is all around you?
Well I was at church today and I listened to a very powerful message and it brought some serious understanding to something I have been confused about for a long time. One time I heard Oprah say that someone asked her why she didnt have any children and she responded with something like, thats why she built the school in Africa, all of those girls were her children. Back then I didn't complete understand what she meant but after today I understand everything.
The message today said that God is going to use you in the very area that you failed in. You are probable wonderiing where I am going with this. Well all my life I havent had a good relationship when it comes to men and people are probably wondering how can I give advice on having one then. See the thing is, I know what not to do and what not to take and what you dont deserve. I want to be the Oprah to all the broken hearts and battered women out there. I want to be the one that shares what I have been through so women can learn from it.
"One day God is going to use you to help you with someone going down the same path."
You dont have to believe me when I say that this is my purpose, but I believe in God that it is. He is giving me the strength to reach out to all the young and old women out there to let you know that we are going to make it.
Don't lower your standards and settle for something less than the best. You dont think that the right man is out there for you? Well I believe it enough for the both of us. Trust me there is no perfect man but there is someone perfect for you.
Stop putting up with second best because if he truly loved you and cared about you there would be no room for error.
Do you want to know what the probelm is with our generation? Love is being based on superficial and materialistic needs. How dare you think that your relationship or marriage is going to be strong when the foundation you have built it on is so weak.
Believe ME when I say this, I have NEVER had a good relationship but I am here to let you know what you do deserve, what you should not do, and when exactly its that time to leave.
Join me on this revolution, healing one broken heart at a time.
Reading for the day Luke 22:31-32
I read this blog today and started to cry because I can relate so much to what you have been through. I too have problems with being able to trust men which stemmed from having a "dead beat dad". A father's absence can put a lot of heartache on his daughter. Which always left me questioning why... praying to God why couldn't my mother had me for someone else. Why doesn't my own family care about me or want to know me or be a part of my life? Why don't my relationship work with my siblings? Although my experiences growing up has made me into a strong woman today. I am very independent and sometimes being so independent and not wanting people's help even though you need it leads to lonliness. Always trying to do things for myself, working my ass of just to show that I can be successful regardless of my circumstances. I have had my heartbroken countless times and I realized that the reason I am so independent is of the fear of going through it again. I listen to Will I Ever by Lyfe Jennings a lot and I relate so much. But I am beginning to let go and taking my heart off of lock and key. I really find healing through your it's good when you can relate to someone and gain strength through another person's story. Thank you for the inspiration!
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thanks you dont know how much your comment means to me...people dont realize how much of a difference they can make in this world, one person at a time and that is what I am trying to do...after the blog my next step is a book..i know its so many more women out there like us who just need to know that they are not alone. I believe in this revolution
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