Hey Revolutionists,
Topic for the day is trigger words, do you have one, do you even know what it means. Well what I am talking about is that one word that brings you back to reality when you find yourself doing the same things that you know is bad for you.
Well I have been reading books, I have been observing my male friends and one thing that I notice is, what comes first for them and what follows. That is their career, status and money. Think about it, do you have athlete friends, or club promoter friends or entertainers or educators as friends? What is the one thing you notice them always talking about, making it right?
DO YOU EVER HEAR THEM STRESSING ABOUT GIRLS, NOT BEING ABLE TO PRACTICE BECAUSE OF A GIRL OR NOT BEING ABLE TO DO THEIR SCHOOL WORK OVER A GIRL..NO RIGHT?
So as strong beautiful women why do we limit ourselves to doing that, why is is that we would drop everything move cross country and let our faith be determined by a man.
Its time to stop all this you need to find a trigger word, mine is priorities! Whenever I am getting stressed out over him not calling back and I am thinking too much about it, I say priorities to myself and right now i know deep inside what that word means to me.
I am not going to be one of those 30something women talking about I'm all about my career and money but just how easy it is for a man to say get the career and money and the women will come..I feel I can do the same thing.
Its not even saying completely forget about men and say they aren't shit but just really put everything into perspective, know what you need to do to become successful, create that trigger word and get to it.
I am telling you at the end of the day that man is going to move where he needs to move, do whatever it takes for him to make it and he is not going to let a woman get in the way.
"If i have to lie to her and tell her i love her so that she can help with my school work and help me graduate, I am going to do it as long as it takes."
Read that sentence and know that some men will do whatever they have to to make it...
find your trigger word, define what it means to you and the next time you see yourself straying from your destined path, USE IT, SAY IT TO YOURSELF, SAY IT OUT LOUD, WRITE IT DOWN BUT USE IT!
join me on this journey to self discovery, healing one broken heart at a time.
Romans 8:28
Exactly why you are anonymous and thanks for you kind words. what other people think of me doesnt matter because i am trying to become better so by you coming here trashing me on my own blog it just goes to show that even when you are trying to become better there is someone trying even harded to bring u back down to that dark place. I dont have to be anonymous even if they hate me im real. so if you have to hide behind a computer to bring me down and use negative words at me then you my friend are pathetic, this is my place that i use to express myself and you dont have to real it. but im glad u graced my page it means a lot to me sweetheart
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