Hey Revolutionists,
I am sure you have had one of those days when you just go, "life cant get any worse than this". But at that moment what exactly is going through your head, do you think about giving up? do you think about dusting yourself off and trying again? Do you think positive or negative?
Before I started this journey, I use to be an extreme pessimist. I always thought the worse of things, I always looked at the glass as half empty instead of half full. I think that's the problem with a lot of people these days, when faced with an unlikely circumstance we run for the hills.
A lot of times people get on me because of the type of person that I am. In my last relationship, he didn't like the fact that I expressed what was going on through my writing. He didn't look at it that I was trying to do something big, that my ultimate goal was to help women in situations like mine. He did not support me, he wanted me to change.
DO you think that people can change?
I heard something the other day and I believe in it. "People don't change, they modify, they adjust but they will always remain who they are deep inside.
The point I am trying to make is, don't change who you are because the other person isn't man or woman enough to handle all that you have to give. I am aggressive in nature because my past has shaped me into that individual. The only way I can change is if I can change my past and the last time I checked no one was able to travel back in time.
SO the next time LIFE, or PEOPLE or CIRCUMSTANCES hand you crap, be true to yourself and never let anyone morph you into what they want you to be.
Everyday is a struggle as I take this journey to self discovery. I have slip ups but instead of falling into old and bad patterns, I logically think about the consequences of my actions and I clean up and move on to another day.
Join me on this journey guys, it only takes a little to make a big difference. Lets make women, hearts, love and this world a much better place.
I believe that people can change but only through the transforming of the Holy Spirit. The old person is dead and a new life in Christ has taken over. To the world that person may have "modified" but to God that person has transformed and is a new man. That is when I can say that a person has truly changed. I think that if a person still remains the same pessimistic person deep inside then they are definitely only modified and not changed. Their modification can easily be reversed.
ReplyDeleteI believe that you can change. Yes, your past may have been difficult and caused you to become aggressive but with will power and God on your side I believe that you can experience a change in your heart and in your life. With God all things are possible, all things are forgiven.
Good luck on your journey**