Bravery over Bitterness

Morning Revolutionists,
I just wanted to go over bravery and bitterness because I believe it is the most crucial thing after you have left something that might have been bad or that have left you damaged. Bravery is defined as possessing or exhibiting courage or courageous endurance. Bitterness can be defined as characterized by intense antagonism or hostility: bitter hatred. When you see those two definitions would you want to exhibit courage or hostility. Most of you would probably say be brave but in reality you will not be this way. I can say that because I too have taken that bitter road before and what I have learned is the only person it ends up hurting is me. You end up pushing away the people who truly care about you.
I have been hurt by every man who have probably entered my life from my mother down to my latest relationship and after almost 22 years I could just jump to the conclusion that I am always going to get hurt, but instead i enter each new relationship with the hope that a man is finally going to treat me the way i deserve. I am honestly tired and I am sure men are too, of women coming into relationships talking about I have been hurt before I dont know if I could trust again. Right there! at that very moment you have opened the flood gates for trust issues in something that's so new and that you know nothing about.

Its always a gamble, we can never know if that person is running game or not, the only thing we can do is us and do it at our best because in the end you know within yourself that you gave your all to make it work. Trust me ladies if you are being good to a man who isnt good to you, dont think its all for nothing. There might be someone waiting and ready to make one man's trash his treasure. So be you and be great, you never know who is watching.

Its time to be brave and not bitter..get up dust ur self off and love again. Never let being hurt stop you from getting back up on the saddle.