Two can play that game? uh right

Hey Revolutionists,
I had to get on this topic after me and my best friend just had a very long and thorough conversation a few minutes ago. Its crazy when women utter or even think that they can "play" the same game as men. Its funny because the other day i was talking to this female and i guess you can say we are not the best of friends. I was basically telling her that both she and I as women have made ourselves look very weak and set a bad example for other young women out there for staying in the situation we have for two years. You know what she said to me? "well two can play that game...". I kind of just laughed because it made no sense that she would have a boyfriend, supply him with whatever he wanted and needed and would go out there and do the same thing for another man because her boyfriend was cheating. Think about it guys who looks like they are losing in this situation? We cant help the standards that are created, it is what it is you know.

I asked my male friends about this and all of them said it made her sound like a hoe. I know its wrong that men could do it and get away with it but I have come to the conclusion that Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, different planets, different genders, different rules. I think in the situation with this female, she was just tired of hearing from me and about me with him and she got to the point where she had to make it seem that she wasnt really into him and that she wasnt investing so much. But I knew it was a lie, it was my bad but I found letters from her to him saying something totally different.

What I am trying to say today is, if you have a boyfriend and you have to ever say "two can play that game" sweetheart there is no reason why you should still be with him. A relationship is not a competition, it is not a way to see who can get even more. I just dont understand why she would still be around after almost two years and think that she needs to get even so that he can show her more respect than love, it doesnt work like that.

This is what is suppose to happen in a relationship, both of you should be on the same team working towards one common goal; making each other happy. The minute you find out that either of you has joined another team and is playing both sides of the field that is when you know you have to call it quits. I learned the hard way, I got really injured but ever since then I have been working my ass off to be a good team player.

WE as women need to take a stand, stop settling and stop waiting for him to come around and realize you were the one. You need to leave so that they can see what life is like without you and if you were meant to be you would both realize you cannot live without each other. I know it hurts but you just have to go through it if you truly want to be happy in the end.

Join me on this journey to self-discovery, helping one broken heart at a time. I love you guys please support me.